SINGAPORE: She thought he was a good man, a man who worked hard to care for his family, a man who was a good father to three wonderful and obedient sons. Then one day, she found out about his dark side and her world fell apart.

On that day, she had been cleaning their home when she found a bag with cosmetics and women's clothing hidden under their hi-fi system, as well as a woman's wig. Since she was the only woman in the household, she did not understand who could have hidden those items there.

Filled with doubt and suspicion, she waited for her husband to come home from work and then confronted him with them. To her shock, her husband told her the things belonged to him, and that at night he would wear them and go out looking for men to play around with!

Her husband told her that he had always liked dressing up as a woman since he was a child, and that he had only married her to fulfill his parents wishes for grandchildren to carry on the family name.

Filled with revulsion, shame, and outrage, she penned a letter to the press, calling her husband "unfit to be a man, a father, or a husband."

Even though she was disgusted with her husband, she decided to stay with him for the sake of their three sons. However, ever since she made her shocking discovery, her husband's behaviour has only become worse. He was twice arrested for indecent behaviour with other men. Even now, at the age of 60, he frequently tries to pick up men at train stations and public swimming pools.